Comparability. We’ve all heard this phrase and we’re aware of the way it can invade each space of life should you enable it to. Whereas our private lives are sometimes affected most noticeably, in our fast-paced, social media-driven society, our companies may be affected as nicely. Comparability to another person’s journey can result in emotions of frustration, disappointment, and defeat, however it doesn’t need to be that approach!
In episode 571 of The Bokeh Podcast, we’re joined by Sarah Larae, as she opens up and discusses what her journey has regarded like and the way she has overcome limiting beliefs! After strolling via struggles in her private life and falling sufferer to self-deprecation and emotions of insecurity, Sarah found that true success comes from being true to your self. Tune in as we talk about 4 sensible steps you could take to start defining success for your self, too!
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Sarah’s ideas on the significance of in-person group (3:08)
Model place (7:10)
How does Sarah differentiate “joyful” in her model? (8:46)
How does Sarah encourage “gradual to heat” purchasers to embrace a joyful perspective? (10:39)
Sarah, on being comfy with herself (13:39)
How was Sarah capable of overcome being insecure? (16:38)
Creating a terrific consumer expertise (19:15)
How has Sarah realized to ask the correct questions? (21:24)
Method for time administration (25:08)
Outsourcing/Delegation (26:58)
E book advice (29:34)
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown
Atomic Habits by James Clear
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What has pushed the tendency in our tradition to match ourselves to a different individual? (31:47)
The place did Sarah’s perspective come from? (34:12)
Sarah’s perspective on “bravery” (37:22)
Sarah’s transition, transferring out of comparability (47:42)
Sarah’s definition of “success” up to now (49:32)
Sarah’s definition of “success” now (52:00)
4 Steps Towards Making a Shift to Defining Success for Your self (57:15)
1. Start with self-reflection
2. Ask “what do I want?”
3. Block out the noise
4. Don’t give significance to insignificant people
Links:
Charity Water
Sarah Larae Photography – Website
Sarah Larae – Instagram
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